I’m not sure that this title is completely accurate, because there are so many factors that contribute to this thing called marriage. But Wednesday marked 37 years of marriage for Rocky and me. I am more and more grateful for the privilege of sharing life with this man God gave me.
I looked up biblical numerology just for grins the other day and found that 37 is not a number that means anything from a biblical standpoint. (Imagine that!) However, the number 30 can symbolize dedication to a particular task or calling. I can say without hesitation that my husband is dedicated to me and to our marriage. He is always looking for ways to encourage me, love me, and make our marriage stronger. It never ceases to amaze me how much thought he puts into doing this. Even though we’ve been married for 37 years, he doesn’t go on auto-pilot. He never assumes all is well. He continues to pursue, to enjoy, to lead me. What a gift and picture of God’s grace!
The number 7 stands for completeness and perfection. In no way am I claiming perfection, but the sense of completeness God has given me through being married to this man named Rocky is another manifestation of His grace. Rock has brought a richness and fullness and joy during these years of marriage that I did not know was possible. He is the most Christ-like man I know. He is a wonderful blend of God’s steadfastness and gentleness, and touches me with these characteristics on a daily basis. Rocky has been this way since the day I met him, and has never faltered. I know it is because of the work that Christ did in saving him and the continued sanctifying work of the Spirit in his life.
In our early days of courtship and engagement, we were impressed with the words of Psalm 34:3 as a relationship goal: “O magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt His name together.” Because of the dedication and commitment of my husband to Christ and to me for these 30 + 7 years, I’m ready for even more years of seeking to magnify and exalt the One who is our life…as long as we both shall live.
Happy anniversary, Rock!
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